11 honest ways to not marry your enemy

Our society is in total disarray today, not because of any other fact, but precisely traceable to homes, upbringings or marriage institutions which had laid wrong foundations. The family unit is the fulcrum or microcosm of the larger society, states and nations.

Once a marriage is contracted between a man and a woman, the next generation that will either build or destroy humanity is being created. 

Come to look at it very critically. Some marriages produce tyrants, fraudsters, armed robbers, drug addicts and prostitutes etc from a wrong union. Yet, some are producing presidents, leaders, inventors, religious leaders and good people who affect the world for good as products from a good union.

Why you should protect and teach your child about smartphone and internet safety

Billions of people are connected to the internet and chances you are also connected to the internet, the computer, mobile phones as well as TV. These are devices that connect the whole world into your family life, your world and your privacy and so it needs to be taken seriously. In fact, this is the best and worst source to and from the world out there.

Ice Cube Chills In Philly, Drops Off A Check To Help Students Read

PHILADELPHIA (CBS) – While film stars Ice Cube and Deon Cole are on the road promoting “Barbershop: The Next Cut,” — the third movie in the franchise — they dropped off a check at the School District of Philadelphia headquarters, to help young students

How I healed 20 years old chronic piles or hemorrhage in less than two weeks naturally

I had signs of hemorrhage in early childhood. I see traces of blood when I had every bowl movement. My mum being an auxiliary nurse then before going for her educational degree would give me some antibiotics and I will get relived of it.

I was to suffer chronic pile at adulthood and it was not a nice experience. There were times I would climb the podium during my speaking engagements and I will speak while wriggling in pains unknown to my audience. I have used several methods to cure this ailment both by herbs and orthodox but all was to no avail. Unfortunately, this is also an endemic sickness as I have seen those who went for surgery not coming out of it as some died of bleeding during surgery.

21 Things you must change in your life to succeed in 2016 and beyond

 

One of the best decisions to take is to be able to set goals in the next 12 months and reach it. Your life is one with hope and success is not negotiable because you were wonderfully created on earth to dominate in any area you decide to follow. But many will wish to succeed instead of taking action and changing some things about themselves.  

22 things to do when your spouse, friend or relative upset you and how to overcome sadness

Some days are never going to be the same. I use to get so upset that my days are spoiled when I get upset. I am human and I do know you are also used to doing it.  Until we become so conscious of the fact that we need to live our life fully each day at a time, we will always use a better time for enjoying our lives instead of getting into moods that are not worth it.  Your emotional state will trigger vivaciousness or sickness. And research has also shown that most sicknesses that are long in your body are as a result of your internal feelings. 

As long as you live, friends, spouse and even situations will get you upset, but how you interpret is matters. When you get upset, do the following:

How I Memorized 500 Bible Verses in One Year and How you too can

 

When it comes to memorizing scripture, the psalmist put it best:

I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you. – Psalm 119:11 NIV

That’s just one of hundreds of Bible verses that many children memorize in Sunday school. This one has stuck with me throughout the years along with many others.

How to quit smoking in one day, saving your life and leaking wallet

Life is sweet. Life is good. And life is wonderful. But we do not know this reality until we get struck with illness that incapacitates us.  There is no doubt there are a lot of deaths resulting from smoking or disease caused by smoking. Yet, we all keep blind eyes as if they do not exist.

I have heard people reason that if their father, uncle, grandpa or mama smoked all through their lives and yet lived long, why would they not also smoke and live long. I am not wring here on  Journey to a wonderful living to ague logic. My goal is to see you have a great life with great health, sound wisdom and become an asset to your children and lay a good foundation for the next generation. In achieving financial success of a high degree, you need sound health to achieve it and also be a resource to people around you. I want you to age gracefully and happily.

How to Release and Prevent Resentment and Anger in Your Relationships

“Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth.” ~Benjamin Disraeli”

We often experience resentment toward other people when we find it hard to forgive them and hold onto unspoken pain.

Whenever we feel we’ve been treated unfairly, judged, or wronged, we have a very powerful internal reaction.

How to Manifest The Money You Want

If you are ready to learn how to attract money, then read this piece.  I’m going to focus specifically on the how-to aspects of manifesting money.

Playfulness

The most important aspect of manifesting money is to approach it from the right heartset. Think of your heartset as the overall vibe of your relationship to the activity of attracting money. How would you describe that relationship? Is it greedy, needy, excited, hopeful, etc?

If you approach this process from a place of neediness, clinginess, scarcity, or too much seriousness, you’ll most likely fail. That’s the right vibe for attracting nothing — or for making things worse by attracting unwanted expenses — but it’s not the right vibe for attracting money.

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How To Overcome Fear Of Failure before it destroy your whole life

Have you ever been so afraid of failing at something that you decided not to try it at all? Or has a fear of failure meant that, subconsciously, you undermined your own efforts to avoid the possibility of a larger failure? At one time or the other, many of us have agonized over fear.

Many of us have probably experienced this at one time or another. The fear of failing can be immobilizing  it can cause us to do nothing, and therefore resist moving forward. But when we allow fear to stop our forward progress in life, we're likely to miss some great opportunities along the way.

In this article, we'll examine fear of failure: what it means, what causes it, and how to overcome it to enjoy true success in work, and in life.

Causes of Fear of Failure

To find the causes of fear of failure, we first need to understand what "failure" actually means.

We all have different definitions of failure, simply because we all have different benchmarks, values, and belief systems. A failure to one person might simply be a great learning experience for someone else.

The power of your mind, how to use it to your own life advantage

One of the biggest secrets that transformed casual worker turned steel merchant, Andrew Carnegie into unequaled success was the power of the mind application. Same was Napoleon Hill who became a colossal success too. “What the mind can conceive, the mind can achieve”

What exactly is the MIND?

The mind is a spiritual power, a force that resides in every life. It builds up anything and the body of man can then manifest it. It stands between the physical experience, the spiritual experience and the source of man. 

It is a processor working 24hours everyday. With the mind, man can build, advance the earth, perceive and experience his source. It can also destroy.

The mind feeds the body with emotion to trigger frustration or happiness. The mind will make a man merry or sad. 

The Courage to Live Consciously. How to go past your fears in life

Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing. To keep our faces toward change and behave like free spirits
in the presence of fate is strength undefeatable.  - Helen Keller

In our day-to-day lives, the virtue of courage doesn't receive much attention. Courage is a quality reserved for soldiers, firefighters, and activists. Security is what matters most today. Perhaps you were taught to avoid being too bold or too brave. It's too dangerous. Don't take unnecessary risks. Don't draw attention to yourself in public. Follow family traditions. Don't talk to strangers. Keep an eye out for suspicious people. Stay safe.

But a side effect of overemphasizing the importance of personal security in your life is that it can cause you to live reactively. Instead of setting your own goals, making plans to achieve them, and going after them with gusto, you play it safe. Keep working at the stable job, even though it doesn't fulfill you. Remain in the unsatisfying relationship, even though you feel dead inside compared to the passion you once had. Who are you to think that you can buck the system? Accept your lot in life, and make the best of it. Go with the flow, and don't rock the boat. Your only hope is that the currents of life will pull you in a favorable direction.
No doubt there exist real dangers in life you must avoid. But there's a huge gulf between recklessness and courage. I'm not referring to the heroic courage required to risk your life to save someone from a burning building. By courage I mean the ability to face down those imaginary fears and reclaim the far more powerful life that you've denied yourself. Fear of failure. Fear of rejection. Fear of going broke. Fear of being alone. Fear of humiliation. Fear of public speaking. Fear of being ostracized by family and friends. Fear of physical discomfort. Fear of regret. Fear of success.

The Real Purpose of Your Life and what you need to know

Most of us think our purpose in life is to be rich, ride the best cars, be famous or popular as well as travel the whole world. I use to think this way too and this results in sickness, frustrations bringing negative vibration if you don’t get what you want. 

Life’s purpose is not for the above. These are all just benefits that the Higher Power God gives to His children. They are provisions. Most people already have the above, yet they do not know the purpose of their lives. This is why they have money or riches but do not know what real wealth is. 

They like to be showered with titles and be worshiped as gods. They hold back their wealth instead of distributing it. They lack money mentality and have lack mentality. They have the belief that money is hard to come by, therefore are not ready to release it and allow it to circulate. They do not know that it was given to them by God for a purpose.

They hoard what God gave to them for them to use in improving humanity. This is in line with the law of the Universe and accounts for why most people who had money earlier ended up loosing it eventually. 

Understanding the Purpose of Your Life

Imagine in your dream, you were visited suddenly by a strange BEING you could not fathom who he was. This being was looking as flashy and beautiful as you have never seen before, so loving, caring, fatherly, motherly, childlike and very comforting. This BEING woke you up from your sleep and asked you to leave your mortal body and sit with him to have a chat about your life, your cares, burdens and purpose on this seminar called earth.

While you were seated for this meeting, you see your other body (mortal body) lying on the bed. The BEING brings out and hand over to you a blue print of your life – best, comfortable and luxurious houses and cars, fat bank account, happy family, a great relationship and the path to the best things of life.